fix(proxy): resolve circuit breaker state persistence and HalfOpen deadlock

This commit addresses several critical issues in the failover system:

**Circuit breaker state persistence (previous fix)**
- Promote ProviderRouter to ProxyState for cross-request state sharing
- Remove redundant router.rs module
- Fix 429 errors to be retryable (rate limiting should try other providers)

**Hot-update circuit breaker config**
- Add update_circuit_breaker_configs() to ProxyServer and ProxyService
- Connect update_circuit_breaker_config command to running circuit breakers
- Add reset_provider_circuit_breaker() for manual breaker reset

**Fix HalfOpen deadlock bug**
- Change half_open_requests from cumulative count to in-flight count
- Release quota in record_success()/record_failure() when in HalfOpen state
- Prevents permanent deadlock when success_threshold > 1

**Fix duplicate select_providers() call**
- Store providers list in RequestContext, pass to forward_with_retry()
- Avoid consuming HalfOpen quota twice per request
- Single call to select_providers() per request lifecycle

**Add per-provider retry with exponential backoff**
- Implement forward_with_provider_retry() with configurable max_retries
- Backoff delays: 100ms, 200ms, 400ms, etc.

src-tauri/src/proxy/mod.rs

@@ -13,7 +13,6 @@ pub mod provider_router;
 pub mod providers;
 pub mod response_handler;
 pub mod response_processor;
-mod router;
 pub(crate) mod server;
 pub mod session;
 pub(crate) mod types;